He gave me a birthday gift on 2014, first gift that I got from a college friends. We were very close for sometime, however, another man ask me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, we became far apart after that. Moving forward, years later, he hit me up again and we started to be close again, after I broke up. I was touched, thought that he still waited for me after all this time (seems like a korean drama lol). But after giving him a clear hints that I'm into him, he stay still and seems like not into commitment. I want to be with him but I think if it's not the man that make the move, the relationship is not official because it still have to be the man that takes responsibility to start a relationship. 

The moment of truth shows when he sends me a meme above, that saying that when his parents on his age is having a baby, he still wants to achieve all the things that he wanted to do. That hits me hard, I realize that he didn't have the courage to have a relationship at this point and still wanna have fun. I don't wanna waste my time anymore, to wait for someone who hasn't prioritize my presence. Getting disappointed, I start open up to another men and I think it's one of the best decision I made in my life, cos few months ago, I met someone and he made us official. We share a lot of perspective about anything, and also about our past. I discuss about Mr. Humble to him, asking for his point of view as a man. My boyfie said that it means he didn't find any girl attractive except me, so he tried to came back with me lol, very funny. "However this also means he is bad at making decisions. You have give a big green light to him; giving him presents, sending him coffee via grabfood.. What is he waiting for? You have waited around 5 months after you're single again and in my opinion it is more than enough to have him thinking to make you guys official. If he cannot decide and make a move for this simple and obvious result: you would've said yes if he asked you to be his gf, right? so what else he's waiting for? how can he make decisions for bigger problems?"

If a man said he didn't ready, it means he didn't choose you. A man will always be ready for a woman that he wants in his life. "Like me, when I finally meet you and you look like giving me green lights, I don't take too much time to take you as my girlfriend, we only went on 7 dates before I confess" he smiled, pull me close and kiss my forehead, "Hahaha that is actually a lil bit long, before I meet you, there are some men that confess to me just in 2 dates, even on the first date!" I teased him, "But you reject those unlucky men and keep waiting for me, right? hahaha, lucky me. If I take longer time to think, I believe on some point you'll leave me and go on to another man queueing to date you. You need to realize your self-value, Helen. You're a wonderful woman, a wife material. Please don't ever leave me, I can't go back to the phase when I live a life without you".